Men think they're simple and not complicated because they feel by not expressing their emotions as much as women do, that makes them simple - WRONG! Just because you don't express your feelings more than women do does not mean you're simple or less complicated.
In fact, in a lot of instances, it makes you MORE complicated because some of you expect women to read your minds or read between the lines, but women are NOT mind readers, just like you're not. MEN and WOMEN are BOTH GUILTY of not always communicating properly. We ALL often say one thing but truly mean another and hope that the person gets what we're saying. We ALL could improve on "saying what we mean, and meaning what we say."
The only thing simple about men that women know of for sure is that men love sex. Other than that, women have just as hard of a time figuring out men as men have figuring out women. The difference is women will actually spend money on books and "INVEST" their time to research on how men think where some men rarely pick up an article about women, let alone a book.
The men that have actually taken their time to "INVEST" in relating to women better make some of the BEST LOVERS - hands down.
So with that being said:
Picture if you will, if you can communicate with the same passion in your relationship as you do when communicating about sports, you wouldn't have as many problems as you do in your relationships.
Your woman wouldn't be so emotional if she didn't spend half of her time trying to figure out what you're thinking because you responded with very little or in some cases saying nothing at all. You know that by nature women are nurturers so women CARE about what's on your mind and women want to UNDERSTAND what's on your mind, but some some men make women feel bad for asking more than once what they're thinking. But have you ever stopped to think that she keeps asking because you didn't make YOURSELF clear the first time?
THERE'S 2 WAYS THAT "SOME" MEN COMMUNICATE POORLY:
There's the quiet guy, the guy that says nothing - he's just quiet:
You're wondering how he even got that woman he's so damn quiet. Even when his kids misbehave he has nothing to say. BUT once the GAME comes on, you didn't even know he had a voice. Once the game comes on, suddenly ESPN has a new commentator in the house. Now if you took that same passion and put it towards your communicating skills in your relationship, imagine how great your relationship would be.
Some of you invest more time in knowing Lebron's average scores than you do investing in communicating with your OWN woman. In fact, you know his scores so well, you know them better than Lebron himself, but you don't have that "same passion" for your woman.
So let's fix this, why can't you invest that same passion into your woman, your significant other, your teammate for LIFE? You can watch Lebron play, but your passion should go into your OWN TEAM.
It's a game to Lebron, it's a game to Shaq, it's a game to Kobe. Are they investing any passion into you?
Then you have what I call the SELFISH MAN:
He will LIE, CHEAT, AND STEAL just to get some kitty. This guy does not tell women the TRUTH simply because he's SELFISH. He leads with the relationship talk because he thinks that will get him the kitty faster. It's all about ME ME ME and ME ME ME and some more ME. Then when he decides to check out and she gets upset and emotional, he has the audacity to blame her and goes around saying that women are crazy.
BUT GUESS WHAT, KARMA IS A BITCH. What goes around comes around. Where is this selfish man headed? To a place where there is NO LOVE, NO ONE TO CARE, and NO ONE TO GIVE A FUCK about him. That's his destination and that's a lonely place to be.
So in conclusion, fellas, stop labeling women saying we're "complicated" because as you can see, some of you are not as simple as you claim to be either.
***DISCLAIMER***
THIS DOES NOT APPLY TO ALL MEN SO BEFORE YOU GET YOUR BOXERS IN A WAD,
IF THE SHOE DOESN'T FIT, THAN DON'T WEAR IT. IF YOU COMMUNICATE WONDERFULLY BRAVO TO YOU, YOU'RE 2 STEPS AHEAD OF THE GAME!!
IN ADDITION, I DON'T SPEAK FOR ALL WOMEN,
ONLY THE ONES THAT SHARE THE SAME THOUGHTS I DO.
ANH VU
Nothing But The Truth
