If you're wondering what you need to know about women, you've come to the right place. Why? Because I'm a woman that knows what she wants and knows who she is. If you asked me 10 years ago, I would have given you a completely different answer. But with maturity, life experience, and wisdom, it has brought me here and I hope with this article I can help you look inside the mind of how most women really think.
First of all, men seem to have this notion women don't know what they want and we're very complicated! We say one thing and do another. We're emotional, difficult, demanding, etc.
I can understand why men would think this. You have probably dated, had serious relationships
or even been married to a woman that didn't know who she was or what her worth is. So that is why you can't seem to figure women out.
It's just like a woman that dates a man who has not quite graduated to MANhood yet. He does things that baffle her for instance saying he wants a relationship but still plays the field. She can be left dangling and confused not knowing what to think because his actions say one thing but he does another. Why is this? Because he has not graduated to MANhood yet. And I'm not saying a man that wants to date openly is not a MAN, but what I am saying is a man that has graduated to MANhood will be honest with whatever his intentions are.
Well, same goes for a woman. If she doesn't know where she's at in life or is dealing with a lot of insecurities, of course you're going to get a woman that cannot provide you with a fulfilling relationship because she doesn't even know who she is yet. And in turn, this is where the stigmatism comes in that women don't know what they want!
You've probably run into the type of women that are gold diggers or love bad boys. You say to yourself "women always say they want a good man but they go for the guy with the most money or the guy that treats them bad", right?????
Well, if you're dating a woman that doesn't seem to know what she wants, it's that you're dating a woman that either wasn't raised right OR she has not reached her full identity because TRUST ME, once a woman does, she knows exactly what she wants and will make it clear to you! A REAL MATURE woman knows that money doesn't buy happiness, a REAL MATURE woman knows that a bad boy is ONLY good for just a lay but he's not marriage material, a REAL MATURE woman is secure with herself and does not need others to make her feel beautiful, a REAL MATURE woman knows how to take care of home and most of all a REAL MATURE woman knows her WORTH!
So to answer the question, "What Do Men Need to Know About Women?"..... I'm going to make this very simple - WOMEN want the SAME things men do! True love, a great sex life, and LOYALTY! If she has this, there's no telling how far her love will go for you. Of course there are other intangibles in the equation but that depends on the woman you're dealing with. It's always a case by case situation. What one woman wants, another may not. But the WORST thing you can do is categorize all women.
Treat a woman as an individual, find out what moves her and whatever you do, don't compare her to other women!
Like Rihanna said - treat me like I'M THE ONLY WOMAN IN THE WORLD and we will give you the world! If you say "I do that but she treats me like crap", well then you're either being TOO nice or TOO accommodating. Yes there is such a thing. You don't ever want to be someone's doormat because they will walk all over you. It's just like children - give them TOO much and they will be spoiled - same concept!
If you're dealing with a REAL MATURE WOMAN, it shouldn't be that complicated...........
Unless, you aren't ready to receive a REAL MATURE WOMAN.
Your Friend,
Anh Vu
(You can find this article in DIMEZ MAGAZINE at your local newsstands and Barnes & Nobles.)
Stay tuned for PART II on "What Men Need to Know About Women"
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